WELCOME, CLASS OF 2020 [2021]

​​​​​​​Today’s tip: WELCOME, CLASS OF 2020 [I know it is already 2021, but it applies all the same!] Today, I looked at UNICEF’s Executive Director’s message to the Class of 2020 and realized that, in several parts of the world, this is a week of graduation and celebration. After years of study and sacrifice, a new…

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BUILD YOURSELF -AND OTHERS- UP!

​​​​​​​Today’s tip: BUILD YOURSELF -AND OTHERS- UP! It was September 2002 -a year after 9/11- when I moved to NYC. I was living in the Big Apple, and my brain struggled distinguishing reality from fiction. Have I been here before, at this very corner, or is this familiar only because it is in my memory…

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FORGET ABOUT WINNING, FIGHT TO BE SUCCESSFUL!!!

Today’s tip: FORGET ABOUT WINNING, FIGHT TO BE SUCCESSFUL!!! This past weekend -Saturday and Sunday- was Indian weekend: tandoori chicken, murg makhana (butter chicken), garlic naan, rogan josh (red lamb), palak paneer, etc. Along with good food, there’s always good conversation, particularly when you have a cultural mosaic of Bangladeshis, Ugandans, Egyptians, Indians, Brits, Sri…

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FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DO WELL

Today’s tip: FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DO WELL, not what you don’t, JUST DON’T OVERDO IT! ​​​​​​​ The music had started playing a bit earlier, but for once, I had managed to go to bed at a decent time, and it took me a while to wake up, understand what was that ‘noise,’ and realize where…

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TOUCH ME, PLEASE!

Today’s tip: TOUCH ME, PLEASE!  She is intelligent, witty, sensitive, and cheerful. She is knowledgeable, professional, and successful. She is a caring and loving daughter, and I barely know her. But I was privileged to be the first person, outside of her very immediate family, to hug her after several months of strict self-isolation established to…

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FOLLOW THE WATER!

​​​​​​​Today’s tip: FOLLOW THE WATER!!!! She was born at a time when women could not vote, study the careers they wanted, or in general, make the life choices they thought to be better for themselves. Some years later, with a revolution in between, laws changed, women vote was allowed, and things -including health for women,…

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WALK THE TALK, NOW!!!

Tip of the day: WALK THE TALK, NOW!!! How was your night? How was your weekend? I sincerely hope it was restful, joyful, and recharging. Unfortunately, mine was crap! Well, not really. I am melodramatic, so let’s nuance it and say it was ‘crappy,’ and it could have been ten times worst, so I grateful.…

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